Down the street from my
house, there was an old cemetery that my sister and I visited—when we dared. We
didn’t expect ghosts to rise up or bones to rattle, but it was a disconcerting
place. After all, in the first row, there were granite markers for young
children who had died, apparently from a contagious disease that nearly wiped
out the entire family. We rarely saw anyone else visit the graves or leave
flowers. It was a forgotten place, until John Fipphen published Cemetery Inscriptions, Wolfeboro, New Hampshire.
Some cemeteries were
visited by the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR) or Works Progress
Administration (WPA), by family or cemetery associations like Friends of Abandoned Cemeteries Inc. Staten Island (FACSI), or by individuals
like Fipphen—and their transcriptions may be available in microfilm, book,
manuscript, or database format. To help you find such listings, check out books like David Allen
Lambert's A Guide to Massachusetts Cemeteries and Janice Kohl Sarapin's Old Burial Grounds of New Jersey.
However, it's the Internet,
which attracts volunteers from all over the world, that has become an essential
place to look for transcriptions, gravestone photos, and much more. My favorite
site is Find a Grave, which I’ve watched grow exponentially over the years. Below,
I’ve listed some national, New England, and local cemetery web sites. Also try
search engines such as Google for cemetery listings. You may find
currently operating cemeteries have databases online, such as the Mount Hope Cemetery in Bangor, Maine. Some old cemeteries have been transcribed
and posted online too, such as the Hampton, New Hampshire, cemetery database. Or you may find an old book, like Ogden Codman's Gravestone inscriptions and records of tomb burials in the Granary Burying Ground, Boston, Mass., which has the benefit of being published before some vagaries of time and weather erased tombstone details.
No luck finding transcriptions? Search for the cemetery name and location online to find out who owns or maintains it. I've had success contacting cemeteries, funeral homes, churches and religious societies, local libraries, and historical societies for manuscript transcriptions and burial records. For abandoned or town-owned graveyards, contact the town's cemetery division or department of public works.
Don't know where your ancestors are buried? Check if the death certificate or obituary mentions your ancestor's final resting place.
No luck finding transcriptions? Search for the cemetery name and location online to find out who owns or maintains it. I've had success contacting cemeteries, funeral homes, churches and religious societies, local libraries, and historical societies for manuscript transcriptions and burial records. For abandoned or town-owned graveyards, contact the town's cemetery division or department of public works.
Don't know where your ancestors are buried? Check if the death certificate or obituary mentions your ancestor's final resting place.
National/International
USGenWeb Tombstone Transcription Project (see also USGenWeb state
and county sites)
The Gravestone Project
The Association of Graveyard Rabbits
Grave Addiction
JewishGen Online Worldwide Burial Registry
Tombstones & Monumental Inscriptions - links by Guy Etchells
Military
U.S. Dept. of Veterans Affairs Nationwide Gravesite Locator
American Battle Monuments Commission
Civil War Soldiers and Sailors System - National Park Service
Patriot & Grave Index - National Society Sons of the American Revolution
Commonwealth War Graves Commission
New England
Connecticut
New Hampshire
Maine
Massachusetts
Rhode Island
Vermont